![]() ![]() Now whenever i try to talk with her about my past i get “You are 44 years old, grow tf up!”. She started kicking me out of her house for things like eating cereal in the evening because “cereal is for breakfast only!” I literally from the age of 15 on spent many nights sleeping in the backs of friends cars crying myself to sleep. Reading the OP was like reading my life and i honestly always felt that i was the only one in the world that experiences this type of loneliness and just pure disgust from my mother. ![]() I was raised by my mother and my stepfather until he committed suicide at age 11 from then on its just been my mother. I am in the middle of an older sister of 18 months and a younger half brother who is 5 years younger and is the apple of my mothers eye. While this may sound more like prevention rather than treatment, I think that it’s never too late for good and responsible parenting.īut this is just my opinion, what do you think? Comments are very much appreciated.įeel free to join the discussion. So logically, I would have to say that good and responsible parenting is the real and outright solution for middle child syndrome. The main cause of middle child syndrome is lack of emotional support, which is the responsibility of the parents. While having a new family means getting another chance, I do not think this is the best solution because escaping the past will not really resolve any childhood issues and these issues may haunt them for the rest of their lives. There are also cases where middle children tend to separate from their family at a relatively early age to have families of their own. Some say that middle children should be given the love and attention that they should have had when they were young, but I believe this will only make them more dependent on their parent’s approval. This unloved feeling makes them less confident and envious of others, often leading to even more problems such as drug abuse. Because the eldest and youngest are the common favorites, the middle child is not given any support or attention. Wanting to be different from everyone else is very normal and there’s not much we can do about it. Identity crisis is very common to us all, and it’s something that we all experience at some point in our lives. Possible Causes of Middle Child SyndromeĪfter discussing the common traits of people with middle child syndrome, we can find two main causes, identity crisis and lack of emotional support. All these repressed feelings of being unloved, unwanted or even hated can trigger an extreme case of middle child syndrome where they show psychotic behavior. Seeing others easily get attention while they continue to strive for attention, these feelings of resentment towards others will continue to build up. Being raised in an environment where they have to compete for attention, it’s natural for them to have feelings of insecurity and jealousy of others. Other observable traits of middle children are insecurity and jealousy. Most likely, these negative feelings will also stop them from pursuing what they want. These feelings of emptiness and loneliness make them not very friendly and maybe even weird to other people. Sadly, this also goes the other way around, they can be very troublesome and determined to get noticed even if it means getting scolded at or punished.īecause they lack emotional support and guidance from their parents, they will always have a sense of low self-esteem. Middle children tend to be achievers because they need awards to be recognized by their parents. They have to go the extra mile just to get some of it. The middle child, unlike the eldest child and the youngest child, is not given much attention. It is also characterized by low self-esteem and extreme introversion, sometimes even leading to psychotic behavior. Middle child syndrome is a condition in which children born in the middle experience feelings of emptiness, inadequacy and jealousy. Middle children are also usually considered outcasts in their families and often develop a condition called Middle Child Syndrome. The middle child, unlike the eldest or youngest child, does not get much attention. Being born in the middle, as you’ll soon find out, is not that simple. you must be wondering, is Middle Child Syndrome real or not? Is it a real issue or just another made up condition for millenials? If you are a middle child yourself or a parent of a middle child, please read on! What is Middle Child?Ī middle child is someone who is born in between two or more siblings. Hey there! I’m Hailey and I’m a middle child □ ![]()
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